26 October 08 - 20:12How To Improve Your Dating Skills Dramatically

Very few guys wonder how I got all this information on women and dating. They just want the strategies and an understanding of how it all actually works. Actually, mostly WOMEN wonder how I got all this inside information on how they work. When they discover what I do as an adviser, the first question they ask is, "How did you learn all this?" My first answer is: "YEARS of pain and suffering!"

I don't say that this pain and suffering was created by women, because it really wasn't. I created it myself by interacting with women without having a clue about what was going on. Most guys do this same thing, creating more pain for themselves than they need to. It's as if you walked onto a field to play with 250 lb professional athletes in a game that you know NOTHING about. You don't know the rules of the game or how the score is kept or ANYTHING. Most people would call you insane for going out there to play without at least having a basic understanding. And yet this is what guys all over ... (more)

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13 August 08 - 00:17How To Improve Your Inner Game..

Have you heard the term "inner game"? Do you know what it means?

There's a lot of terminology thrown around these days, and I wanted to see if you'd heard this one. Essentially, your "OUTER" game is how you interact with women. What you say, how you handle body language, tone of voice, etc. It's everything outside your head. And "INNER" game refers to all the stuff that's going on inside your head when you interact with women.

What are you thinking?  How high is your anxiety?  Are you nervous, or are you calm?  Can you think of what you need to say when it's the right time to say it? Or do you find yourself fumbling for words? Are you able to stay loose, or do you get very self-conscious?

Now, I could make this into a long and drawn out seminar on the meaning and definition of inner game, but it doesn't need to be complicated at all. Inner game is really just this:

Your SELF-CONFIDENCE.

There are ... (more)

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02 August 08 - 19:14Has anyone ever picked on you like this?

Has anyone challenged you today?  Put you on the spot?  Made you feel like you were being tooled or ridiculed?  Played a game with your self-confidence?

This is going to be an UNBELIEVABLE blog post , because this topic goes WAY beyond just pickup and attracting women. It speaks to the heart of who you are as a MAN. And I'm going to show you how to blow out the most common "Alpha" game there is between guys.

Read on...

QUESTION:

Carlos ...In the past few months I've noticed that there are special dynamics that go on when interacting with guys, especially in front of women. It seems that there is always one (sometimes two if it is a large group) alpha male in the group. And of course, the female is attracted to him. I find that I have a strong desire to be the alpha male, but am not always able to be.

For example, I'll be bringing value to the group... when ... (more)

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