22 June 09 - 18:45How to Flirt With Women
QUESTION FROM A READER:
I flirted some with a female security guard at a bank and she out of the blue came up to me and asked me if I was buying lunch. I have read that you shouldn't buy lunch until you get closer to being intimate with someone. I said well, "I could" but was then interrupted and had to leave.
From that point on she changed her attitude and became very "professional" in her actions, and now she just nods her head when I speak or wave to her when I see her. I don't know whether to continue to flirt with her or just keep my distance keep it on the "professional" relationship with her and let it go at that.
What did I do wrong to offend her? Was it I refused to buy lunch? I did ask her out after that and she just said she was busy that weekend.
D.H., Indiana
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