Do nice guys really get the girl?
What Is An Alpha Man?
He's the prodigal "seducer," if you will. The Model is an example that we can use to illustrate the best case scenario. The Ideal. (Kind of like how Michaelangelo's statue of David exemplifies the perfection of the human form.)
You see, the average guy can't make a quantum leap and BECOME the Alpha all at once. It's not that simple. He needs an idea of what this goal is that he's pursuing that gives him the result of "I'M SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN."
The Alpha Model provides him with a framework - a picture to draw in his mind of the attitude he's after. How does an average guy with low confidence with women become the Dynamic Man - The Alpha Man?
By creating a PATH.
We, gentlemen, provide that Path of development - the inspiration, tactics, and practical field examples that this AFC can then use to pin on his mental framework of the Alpha Man. The Model becomes clearer in his mind the more he uses the tactics and strategies and gains understanding through their application.
Now, when he uses these techniques, he only needs to understand that by using them he is merely brushing in more of the mental picture of how he can achieve this state of Alpha Man. Without tactics and strategies to use, he becomes the Wanderer, likely to fall into the pit of self-pity. He begins the path to the Dark Side ---> He starts to fall back on the path of passive easygoing Nice Guy. This false path is logical, after all, and nothing appeals more to a man's mind than logic. And so begins his downward spiral.
Think of it like this:
Here's a guy that's going to school to be a carpenter. A teacher can teach him all the skills he needs to measure, cut wood, sand it right, plane it, read the grain, chisel and sculpt it, stain it, and so on. After several long years of study he will leave school with the basics, the principles, but he will not have made them his OWN until he practices woodwork for a while. He'll have to spend many years figuring out the Art after he's learned the Science. Once he makes good woodwork, he'll then get the confidence to try and do more unique things. It builds into what I call the "Upward Spiral."
But without that schooling, that learning of the science, he will be lucky to get anything more than a hit-and-miss success rate. With much more MISS than hit. I'm only here for the intelligent guy who knows that his ego very often short-circuits his success, and it is only through self-development that we can get rid of the insecurity so that he can combine the Science with the Art.
I teach the Path. The Path leads from the average guy, from his state of despair and ignorance, all the way to the Alpha Man. And the Art of Attraction is really nothing more than building the confidence and self-esteem to reveal his true personality, while understanding what REALLY does work to stimulate female attraction.
An Alpha Man helps women get out of their own way to enjoy his company.
So how does the Average Guy build this confidence? By trying these techniques in the real world and seeing what works. It may sound like circular reasoning, but it's true. You can't learn confidence. You only gain it from shedding your insecure thinking - and that comes from
taking action ... and you only take action when you've got enough confidence to take that risk of action once again.
The way to hop on this upward spiral is to have some Science to apply. And then he gets to feel the reward of success deep down in his nervous system. This feeling is the fertilizer that grows his continued sense of confidence. So the moral of this story, brothers, is that what I will teach you will provide the moving conveyor of information that feeds your upward spiral. (The "upward spiral" is sometimes referred to as the "cascade effect.")
Only through repetition and practice - and courage to persist. This is the Art of being the Alpha Man.
Are you looking to develop a few of the skills that you need to get a beautiful woman in your life? Not a ton of tricks, or magic hypnosis phrases - just a few core skills. They're not complicated, either.
I cover this and many other topics in my e-books and audio. If you'd like to learn more about how the REAL confident men get the women, you can download the information right away. If you want to get that kind of understanding and control over your love life, you need to read my e-book: The Dating Black Book
I wrote it in a simple, easy-to-use format that ANYONE can learn.
I'll be back with more Alpha Lessons for you in just a couple days...
Your friend,
Carlos Xuma
PS: Some guys think that the information I give each week
is only to help them with women. I write it to give you MUCH more
perspective and capability.
I want you to be successful and have an Alpha LIFESTYLE, too.
Read more here:
The Alpha Rules
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